lol, thats funny! my mom and my sister both are very active on my sites...
my members help in quite a few ways...
Every member i have that has a website or works on a website or blogs gives me links, nice links too, and banner placements, a great help for advertisement and seo both.
I have quite a few members who are very talented writers. This helps me cause im not that great of a writer, at all, so when i need something good written i ask them. They have written a outstanding press release, a great email to use for the inactive user reminder hack, welcome messages, monthly emails (newsletters), advertising materials, you name it they helped me. This is probably one of the greatest way my members have helped me and im sincerely grateful for it.
Another member composed a list of allllll the local links for this page here too
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I posted a few long posts in another thread here on vbs earlier. It contained a few links to posts by a man named Joe Walther. I go to "JW" when i need ethical, moral, advice when there is a serious issue to be hashed out, he always helps me and is probably the smartest, most honest and educated person i have never met (but hope to soon). I have asked him quite a few times to put into words my feelings on making those tough judgement calls that we as admin have to make sometimes and he does a oustanding job. He's retired now but is a very accomplished,
syndicated blogger, amongst other things.
Last but not least, the members of the staff, GL in particular, just signed up here on VBS today, i really could not have been this successful without him. He is a major part of Both TD and he runs (admins) TalkPA and does a damn fine job if i do say so myself.